Monday 15 September 2008

It’s Hard…Ahh…It’s Hard…

Well, hi peeps, welcome to my latest installment….yes…long overdue…. Sori but here I am again…wanting to re-address a certain issue…


1st thg 1st….yesterday…at Project Azam….there was this new lady asatizah..much younger than me anyway…who said somtg which I nvr felt ez about aftr tt….HIJAB…in her own words “If ur gf nvr wear tudung or wears tudung but send u pics of her witout tudung…just throw her away….”

Im nvr tt pious in the 1st place….but aint Islam’s teachings means we have to guide ppl who are far off the sidewalk…n not let them go astray….i was like…wat?!?!?!? Aint we supposed to be guiding others within our means…rather than just letting go the person n let the person rot…

I went to work with an uneasy mind today..so I asked around…of cos..there were finally rationale ppl out there…with the exception of 1….the rest were just like….y judge a book by its cover…

my collected responses today were
‘u marry tt sume1 bcos she is a good person or u marry tt sum1 bcos of her tudung?’
‘wearing a tudung doesn’t make one a good person, but a good person will Insya’allah wear a tudung sumday’
‘actually the ustzh has a pt there, but u shld nt throw her away, instead u shld advise her, let her noe the true meaning of mearing a tudung’
‘dats bloody nonsense, itu jenis ustzh yg keras…yg penting isi hati.., as u noe nowadays ladies wear tudung as a kind of trend..mostly not sincere…sum listen to parents..reluctantly following the pointed fingers….but tudung is not the issue..budi pekerti..sopan santun…berbahasa…hormat org tua etc…’
‘ask her to fly kite…it depends on individuals…main thing is ur heart…even if she wears tudung can do sumtg evil rite? Dia ikut darah muda…not all yg bertudung alim org nye…’
‘tudung or not…does not make up the lady as a whole…tudung does not mean holy…no tudung does not mean no morals…’
‘tts ustzh shld nt discriminate like tt…it only actuali enhances her narrow-mindedness & her lack of ability in understanding a true muslim heart…’
‘to each his own…but she shldnt use such a stern stand on kids..kids shld learn with an open mindset’

So yah…in my own true opinion over this matter…yes…it may be worng of the grl not to wear tudung…and if she does wear and snap pics of her not having tt head gear…its totally wrong as well…but tt doesn’t mean we have to let tt person rot to hell…tts crappy aint it…wats the point of not helping..if we help…me wite get merits as well…I wonder….


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